Bad boys are uber-charming, often good-looking, non-conventional, intriguing and they draw you in with their coolness.
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- On Bad Boys and How to Spot Them - Dr. Ali Binazir, Happiness Engineer
Not only is he a bad boy, but he's intelligent.
Now you're faced with a guy who dances to the beat of his own drum and his intellectual desires to be with a woman who can at least keep up-and you can't. You say something funny and he responds with something both funny and witty. Everyone laughs and waits for your response.
15 Signs You're Dating A Man Who WILL Break Your Heart
You're with your bestie talking about some important stuff going on in her love life. You're there for her, like a best friend should be-until your bad boy shows up. He approaches you and starts talking. Suddenly your friend is left talking to no one while you laugh at his jokes, maintain eye contact with him and forget your bestie's existence. Stop making it so easy for him and stop sabotaging one of the most important relationships any woman can ever have — a best friend. Have you ever heard the expression, "too much of a good thing is bad? Again, just be yourself and stop trying so hard to be liked.
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We all want to be treated like a princess every now and then. You want a man willing to bow to your every command and worship the ground beneath your feet every moment of every day.
Guess what bad boys will never do? No bad boy is willing to work himself to death in a sad attempt to cater to you. Bad boys want women who know how to get what they want, not rely on their man to do everything for them. Bad boys like bad girls, and bad girls are just as strong as their men. When you start doubting your man when he's around other women, you're telling him you expect him to cheat on you, which makes him feel like you don't trust him and makes you look paranoid. It isn't easy to suddenly stop your feelings of insecurity but it is possible.
You want the jewelry, the expensive gifts, surprise dinners at fancy restaurants and regular shopping sprees. This is made obvious by your expensive perfume, impeccably manicured nails, brand name outfits, endless supply of new shoes and haughty personality. No bad boy wants to be with a high maintenance woman who expects to be spoiled. He'll tell you to go look for a prince for that. Women have long been portrayed as the lesser gender. They've been viewed as powerless, weak and unable to survive on their own.
Today, women are strong, are forced to work hard to overcome several obstacles and tend to be proud of their accomplishments. And then there's you. If you'd rather sit back and let a man save the day, that's absolutely fine, just don't expect your bad boy to be the hero.
Bad boys get into all kinds of trouble on their own. They're looking for women who are just as good at getting out of trouble as they are at getting into it. If you want a man to take care of your every need, don't look for a bad boy. Every bad boy is willing to offer affection in the form of PDA, whether it's by simply holding your hand or offering a deep kiss.
What a bad boy doesn't want to deal with is a girl who needs to be all over him all the time. There's a time and place for everything, public displays of affection included. If you just finished a romantic date, by all means kiss the guy! But if you attempt to constantly engage in PDA, he's going to get real tired real fast.
Puking his guts out after drunken-arguing with you, not so much. He likes guns, Harleys, and tattoos.
Ah, yes, the triumvirate of a convict in the making. He has a criminal record. But if he was in the big house for something violent like rape or murder, it might be best to pack your bags, change your identity, and go into hiding. He just wants to be a rebel, run that red light, and act like an a-hole. Your parents disapprove of your relationship.
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Charming — They always know what to say and how to make you feel good or feel like you are the only one. They probably have a lot of friends or know a lot of people because of their charming ways. Just make sure you get tested if you choose to sleep around.
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But bad boys usually tend to have more sex partners than the average. You should always be able to estimate or have a roundabout figure of how many people you have been with. Hop in, hop out — Bad Boys love to get it in have sex sooner not later. Chances are if you go out with a bad boy they will try to get you into bed the first or second time meeting you. What can I say, bad boys work fast!
In the beginning they might have you fooled that they actually care about you and your feelings, when in reality they are really pretending to care. They are not interested in your emotional or physical well being and they only listen to you because you have something they want. Again, cheaters like to hop in and hop out and they only think about themselves and if their needs are being met.
This includes sexual needs. Cheating is never an accident or acceptable. No Time — In the beginning, a bad boy will make time for you whether it be on the phone, in person, instant messaging or via text. But after hes got you where he wants you or hes got what he wanted, slowly but surely the amount of time he gives you will slowly start to fade. Talk the Talk — A bad boy will always talk the talk but most likely never walk the walk.
On Bad Boys and How to Spot Them - Dr. Ali Binazir, Happiness Engineer
They are big talkers, they will promise you the world or things within their reach but when it comes to following through, it rarely happens. No responsibility — One thing about a bad boy is that they are boys hiding in men clothing. No matter how old they are, they have the mentality of a boy.